While the first 25 or so pounds of baby weight came off without too much work, those last 10 pounds are clinging like a wet t-shirt! So I signed up for "boot camp lite" at the gym. After one false start - silly me thinking I could get up and go at 6am after being up half the night with a small child...and then a bout with the flu, I am finally back on track. I went on Saturday and again today and I'm getting killed! My arms were still aching from Saturday when I got there tonight! Things that used to be easy for me are now very difficult, and the stuff that used to be hard is now impossible. The worst is the stomach exercises... I used to be really good at the stomach stuff, but now, courtesy of my c-section, it's like they didn't sew my stomach muscles back together! They just don't work. Nothing more depressing than folks 15 years older than you lifting twice as much for twice as long!
I've finally begun to recover from the second bout of flu this month, and have to admit there's nothing like finally starting to feel better, but still being able to sit back and relax under the guise of recovering. So far my day has involved:
So we are finally redoing our backyard a year after it got trashed by the windstorm caused by hurricane Ike. I spent a lot of time with the landscaper going over the plans, asking questions and trying to make sure everything was covered. We decide to re-do the patio and retaining wall but to wait until spring to do the landscaping/planting work. I even got them to agree to put back the sections of fence they have to take down around the back yard at the end of each day so that we can let our dogs out. So last week they bring in a backhoe to tear out the collapsed retaining wall and patio - here's what our yard looks like now:
I haven't been this in love with a voice since Damien Rice's "O" Album. Wow.
First time, first love
Oh what feeling is this
Electricity flows
With the very first kiss
Like a break in the clouds
And the first ray of sun
I can feel it inside
Something new has begun
And it's taking control
Of my body and mind
It began when I heard I love you
For the very first time
For the very first time
This life, this love
All the sweetness I feel
So mysterious yet
So incredibly real
It's an uncharted sea
It's an unopened door
But you gotta reach out
And you gotta explore
Even though you're not sure
Till the moment arrives
There he is and you know you're in love
For the very first time
For the very first time
And baby when I met you
Every feeling I had was new
I don't think there are words
To describe the sensation
It's an uncharted sea
It's an unopened door
But you gotta reach out
And you gotta explore
And when something happens
That words can't define
Only then do you know you're in love
For the very first time
For the very first time
And it works! I feel like I built the relationship more, I felt more honest, and it helped both parties involved.
Tonight I will deprive myself of two things I do religiously everyday. See title. This is the documentation of the attempt:
What qualities must a good friend have?
Submitted by Alexandra.
The truth? I like my friends who add value to my life. those people who disagree with me and have a lot of personality. Who are open minded and do not like too much attention unless absolutely necessary. I like the men and women or are humble and can do non glamorous things and glamorous things equally at ease.